Friday, May 05, 2006

C (N,2)

People, billions of them going about their own lives who would appear as queer lil dots for someone watching our lives from a distance. These dots move about in their predefined spaces. Some of these dots dare to dream big and they step up the rung to get noticed by other dots often leaving behind trails people fondly refer to as legacies. These dots go about crisscrossing with other dots. In fact do we ever realize how many lives we touch or could touch in a single day. Come to think of it say there were N people in this world of ours and everybody met everyone a simple math would put that number close to C(N,2). However that's would a case of exalted exaggeration. But still we do cross so many lives without ever bothering to think about them. Come to think of it you would cross the paths of hundreds of new people every single day and you wouldn't ever get to know them save for a stray road accident, a dropped wallet, a misdialed phonecall etc. As a kid it always fascinated me to just observe people and try to imagine what would be going on in their lives at that particular moment. So even as I drove around with dad on the streets, I used to just observe people sitting up in the back-seat. Now don't imagine me as one of those weird 'Haley Joel Osment' kinda kids but then I thought it was a great way to kill time to guess and second guess people. To try and imagine what their professions were, if that scowl on their faces was due to a bad day at work, whether that radiant glow was a ' it's not Dove, it's LOVE' statements etc. Often I would just smile at faces passing in cars wanting to get someplace they didn't want to be in the first place, at faces bracing up for the worst waiting around in the doctor's waiting rooms, at faces eager to shout at me for no fault of mine because they were shouted at by someone for no fault of theirs recently. More often than not these faces would break back at you with a smile. Try it doesn't cost a penny and you will get to hear a 'Thanks for making my day' more often than not.

9 comments:

totti said...

Shudnt it be NC2? or would i be crucified as the geek! But, you really shouldn't quote me as an example.Yeah,sure, i touch millions of people's life everyday.And, they draw strenght, hope, inspiration, blah..blah..blablah..blablah...but not all can do that.Right? Anyways, first to comment!

Rohan Kumar said...

C(n,2) is just another way of writing the combinatorial nC2. Yu do touch lots of ppl's lives giving them unbridles happiness, unfortunately for you it's always on the cricket field with the ball in your hands :)
(wats the big deal with the first to comment thing, think there might just be a post idea there)

@ps It's the most basic of probability combination notations taught in basic school maths

Point 5 said...

Its surprising how small acts like smiling at a stranger and getting a smile back can create a feel-good factor. Even small acts of kindness like yeilding to a lane changing vehicle and getting acknowledged back create a warm feeling !!

Madame Mahima said...

you forgot to thank blogger, which helps to connect even the most obscure of dots!

thank blogger now! abhi! issi vakt!

but yes..never underestimate the power of a smile and the goodwill it can bring =)

Casablanca said...

But then sometimes a harmless smile or a kind gesture can be misinterpreted as a pass too. I know people who might think so :)

PS: Plis to post on 'first comment thrill' soon, or I might steal that post idea.

Rohan Kumar said...

@Point I think a lil more empathy from everyone of us can go a long way in making this world a happier place and yes I feel gr88 seeing that hand wave acknowledgement after yielding to one of thos elane changing vehicles

@Mahima Objection sustained my lord thnk u blogger (btw u just made a pass at me with that pic of urs if casa is to be beleived)

@Casablanca Who r these 'ppl' :)
Btw that 'first comment thrill' post idea is all urs since u seem to get a lot more of those on ur comments tab

Jinguchakka said...

And sometimes the dots would behave as lines, when over the time they are in the same place.
There, you have the wave-particle duality of quantum physics!

Rohan Kumar said...

@jinguchakka I guess like ps I hope you can get over it and move on with your life ;)

Madame Mahima said...

that casa is a smart one :P